Devolution

After the first night, we had another PG "sleepover" (I am, after all, a lady) after watching some football together at his house, and went on a couple of dates with some less-than-PG sleepovers involved (I am, after all, a woman). I began to notice that he wasn't one who liked to be pinned down with plans, and as my time got less and less free with studying towards finals I was fine with it.

As time went on, the thing with SPP kind of quickly devolved into less than dating and more than friends. But I wasn't too worried about it, because, well, it's not like I was looking for anything else. What was interesting was how he moving changed our relationship. Soon after we'd seen each other a couple of times, he funnily enough moved with 3 guys into a house 2 blocks from mine. SPP was so worried he'd find himself with a bonafide girlfriend who lived way too conveniently close to stop by often that he made it very clear that would not be the case. Woah woah woah...someone's got some mommy issues.

But, in SPP's defense...he served a vital role in my rehabilitation from the ex. Some good, not serious at all, fun. And, well, I'm still friends with him and his roommates, so I have new, fun neighbors to hang out with some. I'm currently working on being Elaine to their Seinfeld grouping. More on that later...In the mean time, I would have possibly gotten my feelings hurt more by SPP's keeping me at arm's length, but well, I had some other complications to my love life to keep me distracted.